Word for the day by Christian Education Forum
Advice For The Groom
Proverbs 1:1-9
My son, hear the instruction of your father.(Pro 1:8)
The custom of a bachelor party before a wedding is often characterized by drunkenness and carousing. The party-hearty attitude seems driven by the belief that the groom will soon be married and have to settle down to a life of domestic boredom.
Not long ago, one of my nephews got married. The best man planned a get-together for Joel, but with a refreshing difference. Those invited were asked to bring some thoughts to share that would help him in this new chapter of life.
When I arrived at the informal breakfast, I found a cheerful spirit of camaraderie. Fathers, uncles, brothers, and friends were animated in lively discussion. The father of the bride and the father of the groom were asked to share their advice on what they had learned in their own Christian marriage. Their thoughts were personal, realistic, and biblical.
The book of Proverbs mirrors this kind of mentoring in facing life’s challenges and rewards. “My son, hear the instruction of your father . . . for [it] will be a graceful ornament on your head” (Prov. 1:8-9).
How God-honoring it would be if more couples began their marriage with an attitude that heeded the wisdom of those who walked the path before them.
PRAYER
Lord, give us ears to hear advice from loved ones wise and humble, so when life’s challenges appear we will not have to stumble. Amen.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
He is truly wise who gains his wisdom from the experience of others.
Lord, give us ears to hear advice from loved ones wise and humble, so when life’s challenges appear we will not have to stumble. Amen.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
He is truly wise who gains his wisdom from the experience of others.
Christian Education Forum, Diocese of NAE of the Mar Thoma Church